Your “fiance” already gave way.  Please just shut up now.  Tsk tsk tsk.  People will now be wary everytime you “help” them.  You may just throw it in their faces, just like you did with Sen. Pangilinan, whose only crime was to respectfully disagree with Mar on some issues.

To paraphrase a line from The Parent Trap:  “You want to know the difference between you and Mar?  He has class and you don’t.”

Do your own big sacrifice.  Back out of your wedding.  But we’re just asking too much of you, aren’t we?